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Yes-And

“Yes-and” is my gospel this year. The good news of how to live authentically, and how to build a life that is meaningful and engaged rather than reactionary and scripted.

In his commencement address at Knox College, Stephen Colbert talked about the importance of “yes-and” in comedy improv, and in life.

So, say “yes.” In fact, say “yes” as often as you can. When I was starting out in Chicago, doing improvisational theatre with Second City and other places, there was really only one rule I was taught about improv. That was, “yes-and.” In this case, “yes-and” is a verb. To “yes-and.” I yes-and, you yes-and, he, she or it yes-ands. And yes-anding means that when you go onstage to improvise a scene with no script, you have no idea what’s going to happen, maybe with someone you’ve never met before. To build a scene, you have to accept. To build anything onstage, you have to accept what the other improviser initiates on stage.

“Yes-and” is my gospel this year. The good news of how to live authentically, and how to build a life that is meaningful and engaged rather than reactionary and scripted.

Now will saying “yes” get you in trouble at times? Will saying “yes” lead you to doing some foolish things? Yes it will. But don’t be afraid to be a fool. Remember, you cannot be both young and wise. Young people who pretend to be wise to the ways of the world are mostly just cynics. Cynicism masquerades as wisdom, but it is the farthest thing from it. Because cynics don’t learn anything. Because cynicism is a self-imposed blindness, a rejection of the world because we are afraid it will hurt us or disappoint us. Cynics always say no. But saying “yes” begins things. Saying “yes” is how things grow. Saying “yes” leads to knowledge. “Yes” is for young people. So for as long as you have the strength to, say “yes.”

The painting featured in this post (painted by my friend Jason) is called “The Woman Inside.” She is that wild, sensuous woman who is fully formed, waiting inside, waiting to be released to the world. “Yes-and” is the key to unlock her door so she can encounter world, and the world can encounter her.